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The way we are living today is to continue the same cycle as our parents have taught us to. The media, schools, and also books teach us to become robotic. For instance, it tells you to go to school, get good grades so you can go to the “best colleges”. And as a result you get rewarded with the good job that pays you well. And stability is what you will accomplish when you get a job. Is this cycle working for us? Are we taking enough action to become who we want to be as time progresses? This is absolutely not true, it’s not working for some of us because I have seen college grads looking for work and struggling to find something that works for them. For instance, I was reading an article by Sean Elezovic and he states
“According to the National Association for Law Placement’s “Employment Report and Salary Survey” issued in June 2011, the employment rate for law school graduates currently rests at 87.6 percent, the lowest it has been since 1996. Prior to the Great Recession in 2007, the employment rate reached 91.9 percent, a 20-year record high.
With national unemployment at 9.1 percent, according to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, where does that leave graduates in 2011-2013?
The students arguably take one of the worst forms of punishment this economy can create.”
This is could be a reason why college students are dropping out of college because of the way they see their future. It’s difficult in today’s time to go to school and find a good job. We need to find another sort of income to generate slowly and with time. If you are going to school it is always a good idea to “start working from home” 2 to 3 hours a day.
With so many job cuts, people getting layoffs, so many “jobs in demand for the future” is going to be harder for the next generation. The truth is there are many people who are looking to start their “own business online” to gain financial security, more freedom, and more time to spend with your family. Over the past two weeks, I have been doing a lot of research in regards of the economy. I was passing through a neighborhood in Landisville PA and one thing I notice was how many houses are vacated, for sale, and also how many people are moving to another state. How about the bankruptcy situation that has shocked the many by making it harder to purchase a home? Is our time, its our time to take control of our lives, its time to move to the top. The answer to how you can make it to the top is by becoming your own boss. Now once you join a company that’s giving you the “financial opportunity” to leverage, make sure you have patience. There is no such thing as an overnight success. It sometimes takes 2-5 year to make it in this business. The best part is you can still keep your current job while you are building your empire at your home. If you put in the hard work it will pay in the long run. Remember this as long as you put in the work in your “primary business”, you will quit your job in the long run.

“What we acquire without sweat we give away without regret”  I got this from a fortune cookie. 

Raymond Del Rosario

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WHAT HOLDS YOU BACK FROM DOING SOMETHING?

Procrastination is something many people fail into and end up suffering internally.  On a regular basis, the reason why people go through problems is because of the lack of motivation. Procrastination can destroy you internally and will not allow you to progress in whatever you want to do in your personal life.  It holds you back with anything you want to accomplish whether its a profession or something important in your lifestyle.  Many experts think that procrastination is a person being lazy and not wanting to pursue something they want.  The definition of procrastination is a personal feeling without any hope, being tired, depressed, frantic of not being able to feel the reality of life.  What it does it traps your mind until you fall down and never get back up again.  For instance, have you ever notice a family member or a friend who goes to school and suddenly takes a test and fails and after that person fails he/she decides to never take the exam again.   Why do people do this?  What causes our minds to go through failure? Procrastination is emotional and a physical symptom that often causes depression.   There are 3 reasons why people fall into procrastination. 1) Whenever want to organize something its difficult to accomplish.  2) Fear of others disapproves you. 3) Schedules and Routines causes you to get angry and frustrated. The unfortunate truth is that often, a ‘snowballing’ effect can happen, you may be stressed and under pressure at work, then causing you to panic, which may then trigger depression which in turn can make thing very difficult for you to do. However it happened, it’s important you get out of it, otherwise you may find that nothing will ever get done because you’re too miserable and negative to bring yourself to do it.  Whenever you have self doubt it makes you feel uncomfortable on how certain things need to be done and it causes you to not complete it.  Being uncomfortable does not allow you to do any activities that will cause you failure and stress.  Whenever you feel these tensions of it make sure to think about others who surpasses through the activity that you feel uncomfortable about.  Another problem that we run into is whenever you commit something that is not right it leads to guilt and because of that guilt would not allow you to social or do any of your normal activities on your daily life.  Always think twice before you do something to others that you would not like that person to do to you.  Another problem is habitual people who are found through procrastination as an automatic response in the mind.  It stays in the mind until they find the solution to it and realizing what the problem of it is.  The way to prevent it from being a habit make sure you stay on top of it and not allow for the same thing to happen daily to you.  Change your routine and adapt into something positive.  The ways to overcome procrastination is make a list of things you are going through in your life that is not working for you. Make sure you plan ahead of time by prioritizing everything on your list in order of importance, and implement the tasks until they are done.  The way to overcome procrastination is through allowing yourself to be organized.  Make sure whenever you accomplish a task reward yourself with something that you love to do.  Allow yourself for a true relief and satisfaction that comes naturally that would not allow anything to break you down into failure.  Failure is not an option in your life.  Overcome every barrier that you have in your life.

Are you struggling?

The result in the mind happens when you’re only thinking about the outcome. It is crucial in life to always pursue your steps ahead and not backwards. Whenever you are in a financial struggle never look back toward the negative always look towards the positive. Whenever you feel damaged inside yourself as if you are worth nothing in life always think about how uplifting it can be when you empower yourself to never give up in anything that you want to do for yourself. There are so many combinations of mis-belief about inner mind of it being a failure when you try to accomplish a goal and whenever you look at the outside world its always going to be an experience that not only you go through. For instance, whenever you at your friends, enemies, co workers, parents and even people you don’t even know has it helped to at least recognize that your not the only one who goes through struggles in life. Always perceive yourself as a good person and never as a bad person there is always going to be barriers in your way. Whenever a negative image comes inside your identity question yourself is it you or it is the next person trying to be you? Reprogram yourself in a life journey where you can take others with you and be looked as a leader in life. Whenever you notice are down, depressed, and lonely think about overcoming your struggles. Remember the majority of behaviors are just ways of life, and it can be changed with time. For instance, whenever you think about financial freedom, being a good parent, or being in good health there is always going to be actions inside you to think about. The way you think is always going to be viewpoints which as a result will hit your emotions. Therefore, whenever your experiences change its because your viewpoint hits your emotions and that’s when your lifestyle changes. For example, lets say you wake up one morning and suddenly your mind has woken up thinking about financial success, it would make you feel like a million dollars. With this in mind it would cause you to be more productive in life by working hard and moving to the top and never looking down. If you are a person who’s always without any money, it’s because your belief doesn’t match with being wealthy. If you think like a rich person, your decisions towards things will be much better. Always act as opportunities are always going to be out there for you. Never stay in the bottom of a tunnel inside a dark room where there is nobody to look up to. Successful people always fall down and keep moving up and that is important to consider in life. If you live in the United States take advantage of the benefits and opportunities you have in your hands. There are so many countries that do not give the same benefit or education to their people. Learn to believe in yourself and always take control of your mind and never let others take control of you. Whenever you are thinking about money ask yourself this question is your paycheck paying your bills, can you buy a new home, can you afford to buy a new car, and can you pay college for your kids? Always create a result that is better than in the present moment.

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